Yeshhh finally get back my laptop, my life is colorful now haha =) I have to thank my coursemate, Ming Wei so much because he helps me bring the laptop to fix it. If not, I don't think my laptop can be fixed so fast. Arigato Gozaimasu!!!
Well, share some experience on human's attitude here. It is 100% fact that I see, listen and feel since I came to this world, now I am 18th and going to be 19th years old. Many years ago I had been involved in friend's conflict, I think most people couldn't avoid it unless they were perfect and that time I was not mature enough , consequently I couldn't handle the trouble well, somemore I was emotional and as stubborn as bull ( I am changing XD ) . If a friend beyonds my limitation, I will keep a distance to he/her to protect myself. Now, I can say I am mature enough and I improve alot physically and mentally ( maybe you don't think so haha ). I actually agree with a friend, she said " if a person treats her nicely, then she will do the same thing too ; what if a person treats her badly, then she will do the same thing too ". That is my principle too, it never changes until now. The only thing I change is I have learnt to forgive people, maybe not as close as before but at least I will not keep a distance to he/her. Nobody is perfect, so chances should be given if the person is willing to change sincerely.
However, for those who like to blaming about the past ;for those who bring forward the past as one of his/her chatting topic ; for those who cannot put down the past ; for those who only dare to stab people from behind instead of talking it face by face ; don't ever ever waste time on them, take them as passing passenger in your life. I am glad that I know his/her true color earlier. Now, I don't care what he/she says ; what he/she does ; what he/she feels because all these will be a joke to me. I agree with another friend too, she said : " we don't need to be sad, unhappy, angry or disappointed because of such people. why? Because due to his/her hardship, he/she doesn't even have a position in our heart ". It is only a big joke to me, nothing more, imagine how successful are you!!!
p/s : Don't be sensitive on this article unless you think you are the one. If you are the one, don't be emotional after you read, it is better for you to improve yourself instead of blaming me.
Well, share some experience on human's attitude here. It is 100% fact that I see, listen and feel since I came to this world, now I am 18th and going to be 19th years old. Many years ago I had been involved in friend's conflict, I think most people couldn't avoid it unless they were perfect and that time I was not mature enough , consequently I couldn't handle the trouble well, somemore I was emotional and as stubborn as bull ( I am changing XD ) . If a friend beyonds my limitation, I will keep a distance to he/her to protect myself. Now, I can say I am mature enough and I improve alot physically and mentally ( maybe you don't think so haha ). I actually agree with a friend, she said " if a person treats her nicely, then she will do the same thing too ; what if a person treats her badly, then she will do the same thing too ". That is my principle too, it never changes until now. The only thing I change is I have learnt to forgive people, maybe not as close as before but at least I will not keep a distance to he/her. Nobody is perfect, so chances should be given if the person is willing to change sincerely.
However, for those who like to blaming about the past ;for those who bring forward the past as one of his/her chatting topic ; for those who cannot put down the past ; for those who only dare to stab people from behind instead of talking it face by face ; don't ever ever waste time on them, take them as passing passenger in your life. I am glad that I know his/her true color earlier. Now, I don't care what he/she says ; what he/she does ; what he/she feels because all these will be a joke to me. I agree with another friend too, she said : " we don't need to be sad, unhappy, angry or disappointed because of such people. why? Because due to his/her hardship, he/she doesn't even have a position in our heart ". It is only a big joke to me, nothing more, imagine how successful are you!!!
p/s : Don't be sensitive on this article unless you think you are the one. If you are the one, don't be emotional after you read, it is better for you to improve yourself instead of blaming me.
3 comments:
Thank you very much. I start falling love at your blog already. ^^
if ppl treat you good, then u treat ppl good, sure is normal...
but ppl treat you bad and you treat the ppl bad also sound like...zzz...
sometime human may do like that,
but maybe if you treat the people good then will change the people le...(我一直深信着)
can inverse the situation or not also on their own hand...
yaya.you are right but for certain people we really have to apply that kind of principle one.
-shuyun-
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